So it was in this same light that a close friend of mine told me of how she heard about a friend of a friend's situation.
So suppose you just got married and move to your husband's house. Your mother in law has been living with her son before he got married to you, and she is widowed so your husband definitely has no plans of her moving out. The problem is, your mother in law was the madam of the house before you moved in, and that has not changed. Your husband is a mama's boy and thus is very close to his Mom. Now, apart from your mother in law basically running the house, you also have to wash her clothes ( panties, bras etc).
You are an educated and successful woman and at work you head a team. However when you get home you feel like a slave. You have spoken to your husband about how you feel, but he is so close to his mother that he doesn't see anything wrong with it. You even want to buy a washing machine just to avoid washing your in-laws clothes but your husband wants none of it.
The thing is you don't want to make this a big deal because you don't want to be seen as an inconsiderate wife but at the same time, the situation is making oyu miserable.
So guys, how would you go about this?