I love to try new food and in America I have the opportunity to do just that. Being a 'nation of immigrants' as they like to call it, there are so many types of other ethnic food available and as I mentioned in my previous post here I have grown to love Greek and Indian food.
I find that going to eat in a restaurant in America is a totally different experience from that in Ghana.
The first time I entered a restaurant, I realized that instead of going to find anyplace to sit, as I would have in Ghana,we had to wait to be seated. Now this involved, a waiter coming up to us, and asking how many we were and leading us to a table..
One thing I found quite interesting was that Americans loved Ice, and I still don't understand why that is. You know I came over in the winter, and even with the cold weather, I would still be served Ice in my glass of water. They just love to have Ice in their drinks. I am actually not complaining, because I love to chew on ice myself.
My first time of trying Indian food, I couldn't finish it, as it was still new to me, so I asked the waiter for a 'take away' bag. He didn't understand me, and I made a hand gesture of holding a bag. It was then that she said 'oh you mean a to-go bag'? I quickly learnt to replace 'take away' with 'to-go' anytime we went eating out, but I would gladly revert back to saying 'take away' when in Ghana because I am sure to get the 'what do you mean' look.
And when you dine in an American restaurant, be prepared to tip. After the bill is brought, you tip about 15-20% of your total spending. You know in Ghana, you tip only when you want to, and it is definitely not based on any percentage.
I find that in a fast food joint, things are done differently though. Most times you order food from the counter, and after eating you clear your table by yourself.
So guys, if you have any experience you would like to share, feel free to drop it in the comment section.
I wish you would share a bit on your husband. I don't know why I have this feeling your marriage was arranged or you just met your husband for the first time in America. I might be wrong but that's what I'm getting from your write-up. A little backgrond on yourself will be nice. Just a little. Love your blog by the way. Keep it up dear. Besides I hate indian food. Love chinese food instead.
ReplyDeleteMind your own business Please. The blogger did not set this blog up for you to pry on her private life but learn something different.
DeleteMind your own business Please. The blogger did not set this blog up for you to pry on her private life but learn something different.
DeleteAh ah what is your own now? Na wa for we africans ( yes am sure u are) and our effrontery / disrespect o. How is it any of ur business where and when she met her husband? Stay in ur lane and do away with the insolence. Its for such reasons she chooses to be anonymous.
DeleteI really didn't mean any disrespect. I was just pointing out things from MY own perspective. If it came across as disrespectful then I sincerely apologise to the blogger. Blogger, I hope you weren't angered. I come in peace.
DeleteThanks for your comment. The main aim of this blog was to share my experiences about life in the US. In the process, I may or may not divulge information about my married life. I am still deciding on what path to take, but for please enjoy what I have to offer.
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Deletethings are just different here in Ghana.poor customer service so you won't even be touched to tip.3 out of 10 restaurants have good customer service.not forgetting the time interval between the time you ordered the food and the time you are served.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you.I hardly tipped when I was in Ghana
DeleteTake it easy on the Ice, your teeth, you know and you really don't have to tip the obligatory %. Just don't go back a second time, to avoid the extra "seasoning." Your blog is very refreshing, different. @DSmartNigerian.
ReplyDeleteTake it easy on the Ice, your teeth, you know and you really don't have to tip the obligatory %. Just don't go back a second time, to avoid the extra "seasoning." Your blog is very refreshing, different. @DSmartNigerian.
ReplyDeleteThe chewing of ice has become an addiction o. I am still trying to stop but sometimes the temptation is too strong
DeleteFrom a medical standpoint, that is one of the symptoms of anemia. You might be anemic, try and get a blood work done. I used to be like that. I was placed on some iron supplements and tried to include lots of greens, red meat, and other source of iron to my diet. I am glad to say that I have corrected that. Now, I can not even stand the thought :)
DeleteYes I am actually anemic. I was put on an iron supplement and my iron levels are ok, I still do love ice though
Deletei luv ur blog dear...kip it up. wish to b n d US anytm soon.
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DeleteI just found ur blog from ladun's and I'm hooked. I love love love it and how u write. Its so relatable considering I came to California 7yrs ago so its still fresh.
ReplyDeleteI love Indian food too and pakistani food. Its my family's favorite. The food is very spicy even though we ask for the mildest degree but you wont mind. U should see my 4yr old daughter, she'd be fanning her mouth and downing her drink but wont stop. Every sunday after church she always asks her dad to take us since its close to church.
Yes I think they cook s bit like Africans
DeleteI Looooove this blog. Simple and intersting. Silent WC reader
ReplyDeleteI am glad you are not silent here
DeleteI love this blog already. Detailing the experiences of an immigrant in a foreign land.. I know how it feels, I've been there in fact, I'm still there sef
ReplyDeleteI love this blog already. Detailing the experiences of an immigrant in a foreign land.. I know how it feels, I've been there in fact, I'm still there sef
ReplyDeleteI really don't understand the clearing of plate issue.. Imagine, after collecting my money I have to clean up my plates myself! It took a while for me to get used to dt 1
ReplyDeleteI love Indian food having studied in India. By da way, m loving n learning 4om ur blog. If i ever visit US, den this may come handy 2 me. :p Whereas if i share abt my country Bhutan, we dont practise take away system. Its not so popular. N also the local people here dont mind nt tipping. So not a big deal. N 4 da ice stuff, its relatively cold here all the year round... I can see that der r some similarities btn our 2 countries. Loving ur blog. :)
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DeleteLol @ "take away" bag...I hear the customer service in Ghana is horrible. I've never been to Ghana, would definitely love to go there, as I have tons of friends & few family members there. As a Nigerian, I would assume the customer service is somewhat similar to that of Ghana. Although, I've been told Nigerian restaurants offer better customer service. I can't attest to that since I came to the U.S. after high school, so I didn't get a chance to go out to restaurants in Nigeria. From my experiences here in the States, some restaurants offer their own gratuity (tip) which gives you the option to not leave a tip or leave, depending on the customer. And as you know, I love your blog. :)
ReplyDeletePlz what's this "Tip" plzz
ReplyDeleteIt is like an amount you give the waiter for a good service
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